I distinctly remember the impossibility I felt as a child that I/we would ever be anything other than kids. It seemed impossible that my siblings would have their own family, or that our priorities would shift, or that we would have real responsibilities. That we would get jobs. Or not live in the same house.
But then, of course, it happened.
This song is an ode to that feeling. A love song for family amongst all of our complications and failures.
lyrics:
(“my little brother”)
My little brother’s getting married this winter
And my sisters son is our guide to
All the light we want but could not see
I watched them grow as I was still growing
Tried to teach them things I didn’t know
And I see that they have taught me too
He used to pull out my hair
And now I watch as he stares
Into the eyes of one he has chosen to love
How you live is how you love
My mom she taught us to stick with each other
And my Dad he showed us how to recover
In a world that wants to numb it all
We’re trading days in the soft night of the evening
Smell of basil and city fills the air
Repeat the same bits as if we’ve never heard them
Laughing at the rhyme and not the joke
Someday I know this will end
Roads they converge and will bend
Be it famine or feud or tragedy due
I’m glad I shared these years with you